Gaming

Orgasm Denial: How To Impose It On Your Man

How is orgasm denial “enforced” on a man?

Well, the simple answer is “you can’t”. You have to be a volunteer and you have to be a willing participant. Even locking him up with a chastity belt or other device is unlikely to prevent him from reaching orgasm in any way if he’s really set on it.

But there are some steps you can take to make her orgasm less likely, especially since it’s obvious that some times are more “dangerous” than others.

It may come as a surprise to discover that most men who experience long-term orgasm denial aren’t actually walking around with the desperate need to cum, 24/7. Most describe the feeling as “permanently halfway to orgasm,” and by all accounts (including my long-denied husband John) it’s very pleasant.

But keep in mind that it is only half way. It’s much rarer than you might think for a man who is denied orgasm to feel the need to sneak out of a quiet place and quietly orgasm out of a burning need to relieve himself.

So the biggest danger points are:

  1. In the shower (strange but true)
  2. First thing in the morning when you wake up (obvious when you think about it)
  3. When you are making love and he is pleasing you and/or you are teasing him.

Answers to 1 and 2 are easy: make sure it’s locked down with a proper chastity belt or device. They are not meant to be 100% foolproof, but they don’t have to be either. They just need to be good enough to act as a deterrent or obstacle.

You can help by making sure he gets out of bed in the mornings very soon after waking up and making sure he doesn’t spend too much time in the shower (some women prefer to supervise the shower, even if he’s locked in the device, but for me I think that’s overkill. But if it works for you, then by all means do it).

So the only really problematic one is when you’re making love or teasing him.

We’ve found that one of the most effective ways to prevent “accidental” orgasm is to bring him right to the brink of orgasm before you get too involved in lovemaking. It’s definitely counterintuitive, but many men report that once they know where the “edge” of their orgasm is, it’s much easier for them to control it.

Alternatively, if you suddenly feel like your man is dangerously close to orgasm and has lost all reason and control, then a firm squeeze on the end of his penis, or the very base of the shaft, can stop him in his tracks.

And if he’s too far gone for that, then you can always stop all stimulation immediately and treat him to a “ruined orgasm.” I promise, they are not the least bit satisfying or enjoyable, and will leave you even more frustrated than before.

None of this is very difficult, and it’s really all a matter of practice and being informed. You can figure it out yourself, but it’s often easier to do your research and benefit from the experience of others.

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