Male orgasm denial is actually harder than it sounds, and for two reasons.

First, you can’t just “lock it up and leave it”, because it will get bored; and secondly, you can’t just make him please you… because he’ll get bored.

In other words, he wants you to tease him, push him… and leave him unsatisfied.

And here’s a great way to do it (and I’ve tried and tested it myself).

For this tease you will usually need to remove your belt or device, but if you have one with a design where it can touch the penis (such as with a Lori cage and some belts where it can reach between the legs and behind the crotch -piece) you can also do it that way.

First, you will need some lube. You can do without it and your leak will provide lube on its own, but it’s much better if you have it from the start. I find the more lube the better because the smoother the glide the more luscious it is for him.

I use ordinary water based lube, like KY. Some men use silicone-based lubes in their devices, so I suppose you could use that, but it’s more expensive and I don’t think you’re gaining anything from it.

NextHave him lie on his back with his hands behind his head.

This isn’t so much to keep him from touching himself as it is to get him into the mindset that you’re in control. By all means, experiment with handcuffs and restraints if you wish. I confess, it adds a certain flavor to things.

Now…

Gently hold your shaft with one hand and with the other hand begin to trace your nails slowly (gently!) over the head of your penis (this is why you need the lube: it makes the nails glide and feels exquisitely torturous for he) ).

I find it most effective if I start at the tip and move all my fingers and thumb together, sliding them down over the head to the top of the shaft and then back (at some point you may lose contact with the nails, it depends on how much time are).

What I love about this technique is that it’s almost impossible for him to come like that (at least John never has) and the level of control I have is incredible.

And of course this means you can do it for as long as you want and keep it on edge.

I’ve never timed it, but I estimate that I joke around with John like this for about 20 minutes to a half hour at a time.

And by the time I’m done, he’s begging for release, I mean really begging for it.

But he doesn’t get it.

Unlucky!

I just let it cool down and bring it back to the edge again…and then I let it cool down…or, if I’m done with the session, when it’s done, I’ll have him put his Lori back on.

Variation

Have your man stand or kneel on a chair or sofa while you do this, again with his hands behind his back or head, clasped or simply clasped at your discretion.

Do this a couple of times a week before falling asleep, and you’ll be well on your way to getting him to beg for permanent denial…and trust me, that’s something you both should aim for if you want it. to get the most out of the male chastity game (he won’t necessarily agree to that right away, but he’ll soon accept your way of thinking).