Bat mitzvah is a “coming of age” for Jewish girls. At age 12 (or in some communities age 13), girls are considered old enough to take responsibility for observing Jewish laws and practices. This ceremony is what most people refer to as the “bat mitzvah” and is usually held in a synagogue (temple). The ceremony is where the girl will be called to the bimá (the front or “stage” of the synagogue) and perform blessings and read the Torah. She may also give a talk known as a “Dvar Torah” in which she will reflect on her learning, perceptions, and understanding of Jewish life. In Orthodox synagogues, this talk may be part of the Saturday service or held in a special ceremony, often with a group of girls. The family usually celebrates this special day with a party.

There are many gifts that are appropriate to give a Bat mitzvah girl. Gifts should not be delivered to the synagogue, but may be brought to the party or sent to the girl’s home address.

Money or gift certificates are often given, as well as any gift a 12/13 year old girl would like. However, there are many Jewish gifts that can be given that give added meaning to the occasion.

Popular gifts for a Bat mitzvah include many Judaica items:

shabbat candle holders A Jewish woman lights candles at the beginning of the Jewish Sabbath and Jewish holidays. Now that the girl has come of age, she can light her own candles. There are many styles and designs to choose from, from flowery and girly to minimalist or funky. Think about the girl’s personality and you will be on the right track.

Hanukkah Menorah is another ideal gift for a Bat Mitzvah girl. Again, the choice of design is wide and it doesn’t matter if she has more than one menorah.

jewish jewelry is another perfect gift. A Star of David or Magen David is a well known Jewish symbol. A Magen David necklace, earrings or bracelet would make a beautiful gift and something to treasure for a lifetime. Other Jewish jewelry items could be inspired by Hamsa. A hamsa is an inverted hand that is believed to protect the wearer from the evil eye. Hamsa jewelry has become very popular and there are many pretty styles suitable for a bat mitzvah girl. The two Hebrew letters “chet” and “yud” form the word “chai” which means life. Chai are a very popular item of Jewish jewelry and make an ideal bat mitzvah pendant.

Giving a Jewish gift is giving a meaningful and lasting gift that can be treasured for a lifetime.